Perspective

Not my photo, but way cool.

Yesterday we were driving around Salt Lake City, running some errands, when we saw a really old car for sale. A really old mini-van, to be specific.

And immediately one of our kids said, "Who would buy that?"

And while I saw this kiddo's point: no one should have to drive a yucky car (IMO), I immediately thought, "Funny how perspective changes everything."

Because if you didn't have transportation, I bet that old clunker would be AWESOME.

Or if your car was in the repair shop and you couldn't do your normal out-and-about, I bet that clunker would be SWEET.

Right?

Funny, I thought about that car all day yesterday.

Because I think we're somewhat in control of our perspective(s):

--We can choose to see things from multiple vantage points. 

--We aren't hard-coded to see ONLY our perspective. 
(As author Eckhart Tolle says, you can make room for "competing narratives.")

I feel like that's one of the greatest lessons my life (education, marriage, religious conversion, adoption, Survivor, etc.) has given me: 

the ability to try and see things from multiple perspectives.

Obviously I'm not always super successful or fully capable of understanding other perspectives, but I am aware that they exist. And that mine (my perspective) is limited.

And I truly hope/pray that our kiddos gain that same ability: to hold competing narratives--to see life from their point of view, but also from another's.

 It seems like such an important skill in this complex world/society we are a part of. (Yes, ending a sentence in OF breaks a rule. Where are the Grammar Police when you need them?)

 What do you think is the most valuable lesson you have learned on Planet E?


Our family, missing Elder Meehan. Literally.

We sent him this photo yesterday. It's a shameless plus for reading the Book of Mormon. Tee hee.

(PS: Since Elder Meehan is out sharing this book with people on his mission, we thought he would like a photo of his peeps reading it!)




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