Don't Let Them Scare You





Dave and I have been talking a lot about fear and regret lately.

Like what causes it?

Is it "real"?

What 'good' comes from it? (Or what 'bad' comes from it?)

Anyway, in true-to-Dave-form, he's been pulling together a whole bunch of quotes and books on the subject for me--and little by little, he pins them to a board in our room or mentions a story.

And I have loved it. It's really made me think. (Note to new readers--Dave teaches way differently than me. Thirsty? Dave will bring you to a lot of water--in different cups, different amounts, etc. He'll probably never encourage you to drink. He will let you be YOU. But me? Tell me you are thirsty and I will grab a cup of whatever I'm having and say "DRINK." It's pretty funny--how different we are. Thank heaven.)

So today, rather than hint at what I'm thinking, I thought I'd just post the quotes Dave gave me today. I love them.

* "The first and great commandment is: Don't let them scare you." --Elmer Davis

* "I started with the firm conviction that when I came to the end, I want to be regretting the things that I had done, not the things I hadn't." --Michael Caine

* "As you grow older, you'll find the only things you regret are the things you didn't do." --Anonymous




(Oh, and I have to post photos from LuLu's bday and Father's Day.
Woo hoo!)




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